Be The Bigger Person

I never took into account the amount of effort that it takes to be the bigger person. You really have to step outside of yourself! These past few months, someone that didn’t exactly do right by me has leaned on me to help them process life’s events similar to ones I’m on the other side […]

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Heart Smiles

My Heart Smiles from memories that travel from my soul to my face.

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Not Meant To Fit In

I’ve know for sometime now that I don’t fit in and that’s OK with me. I’ve been in groups of friends and felt like an outsider. I’m adaptable and transparent. I “Show Up” (see previous blog post) because I gain so much from being present in different atmospheres. Not fitting in is a blessing. I […]

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Path Pavers

My path has many pavers: How to build your faith How to start from the bottom How to handle heartbreak and broken trust How to grieve tough losses How to love like Jesus How to lead How to keep your smile and find joy How to be a humble servant How to know your role […]

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Show Up!

Show Up with the mindset that everything is a teachable experience and your outlook starts to shift. You’ll start to notice new things and those things will make your heart smile. You’ll get more comfortable “entering the room” and become braver! Showing up has paid me big dividends. I was leery initially. Telling myself that […]

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Let Your Heart Break

As I sat talking to my therapist, J.L., he told me to give in to the emotions. To feel them, acknowledge them but don’t stay in that place. It took some time, but alone in my home… I got down on my knees and told the Lord that I’d had enough. That I was taking […]

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What If I Mislabeled The Package!?

What if… … my hearts desire, my soulmate, my purpose, was present in my life all this time but I mislabeled the package? I know for a fact that I’ve mislabeled packages. I made men that were supposed to be acquaintances into boyfriends. I thought that seasonal friendships would last lifetimes. I thought jobs were […]

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